How to cope up with failure ?

Having a setback doesn't define your capabilities. Failures are just a part of our lives. Some of us know how to deal with that but some are not capable of doing the same. We all are different in every aspect and we must accept this fact.

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Everyone has different views on everything and different ways of reaction as well. Being optimistic about every situation makes us feel comfortable in every aspect. Being sad or feeling unhappy about every little thing is not the right way of reacting. We must learn to cope up with every bit of failure in our lives. Feeling comfortable in your skin is a blessing which few of us have. Don't you think so?

Giving up is not the actual solution. Failure makes us more knowledgeable about the situation. Just accept what you are and how you feel. Having a setback doesn't define our future at all, it's just that we should learn where we did wrong and correct those things in the next attempt.

"Try again. Fail again. Fail better." ― Samuel Beckett

It's a fact that we humans have emotions that causes us to think about the situation in whichever way our minds say, most of the time it is negative but we have to learn from the setback and come back stronger and we must learn to be realistic rather than being in the fake world or fake scenarios.

There are few ways of overcoming failures:

- Learn from every failure

- Be realistic about the situation

- Being unhappy is a natural phenomenon

- Every failure leads to success

- Do not lose hope and do not give up

I think, having a positive attitude towards life is helpful in overcoming failure and also increases a chance of successful life. The real solution is changing perceptions. Every successful person now we see was once a beginner and has many failures in life.

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