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Not to be judgemental

Getting judged or judging others are just perceptions of mind. Either you like it or you judge it if you don't like it, these behaviors are common in human nature.  We must not think negative about the others if they are not the way we like it. Difference of opinion,character and thinking is mutual in human behavior. No one's is pefect. When you start judging you think that this is a fact but you don't know the background of that person. So, try to put yourself in their shoes and then think are you judging that person on correct grounds ? Focuse on your life and you will have no time to think about others and be judgemental. Accept who you are and love your way of being and do not be influenced by others. Also, do not think the other person is better than you because you have those traits which other people do not have and they crave for it.  Think you are living a life which somebody want to have, so be thankful and like the way of your existence. Support others rather tha...

Lifestyle management

Preventing yourself from any negative thought is the key for living a healthy life. Eating good food, not skipping a meal, balanced sleeping pattern, exercising daily, no bad habits like smoking etc and most importantly no stress,these are some common factors of healthier lifestyle. Photo by  Zac Durant on Unsplash Developing good habits like waking up early and having a scheduled day are the most impactful ways. Also, maintaining social relationships with good behaviour and meeting people with kindness is included in lifestyle management.  Wearing good clothes which makes you confident is also an important aspect of a better lifestyle. Not only these factors but also maintaining mental and physical health is the primary concern. Whatever we eat finally becomes a part of our body and it is important to follow a specific routine to remain healthy and avoid any disease which may hamper our physical and mental abilities. Focusing on eating habits must be the main goal to live a ...

How Covid-19 has affected our education system ?

This pandemic has affected the education sector the most. Not only in India but worldwide. It has worsened since last 2 years approximately. Photo by bantersnaps on Unsplash The universities,schools and colleges are closed since then and we are studying from home in online mode in which we are not learning but following the daily routine only. The teachers are also frustrated due to more screen time and they are unable to interact with every student as they used to do in offline mode of study. Now, students are becoming lazier day by day and they are not able to focus on studies. There is no difference left between a topper student and an average one because teachers are not able to make an interaction so that they can differentiate the performance. In offline mode of study our presence were marked daily but now this is not the same. Students are suffering from stress and headache due to more screen time.  It has affected the higher studies mostly as it is the crucial stage in ev...

How to boost confidence?

Self-satisfaction is a primary step towards gaining confidence. Being happy in your skin is a form of faith in your own personality. Being honest with your ownself boosts up your morale and confidence level as well. Without confidence, we can not have leadership skills. Talking to one another, sharing ideas and knowledge gives you a greater understanding of things which will help you in attaining confidence. Image by Luisella Planeta Leoni on Pixabay The society in which we are living is really competitive. Giving interviews is one of the examples in which confidence is necessary. If you are not confident while giving interviews then this will surely going to decrease your chances of selection. While speaking, be faithful to your thoughts. Think faith and faith is at hand. There are some important points to remember: - Improve skills - Self-satisfaction  - Positivity  - Learn new things  - Be true to ownself  - Explore your thoughts  - Try to be vocal  - ...

How to cope up with failure ?

Having a setback doesn't define your capabilities. Failures are just a part of our lives. Some of us know how to deal with that but some are not capable of doing the same. We all are different in every aspect and we must accept this fact. failure by Mike Cohen is licensed under CC BY 2.0 Everyone has different views on everything and different ways of reaction as well. Being optimistic about every situation makes us feel comfortable in every aspect. Being sad or feeling unhappy about every little thing is not the right way of reacting. We must learn to cope up with every bit of failure in our lives. Feeling comfortable in your skin is a blessing which few of us have.  Don't you think so? Giving up is not the actual solution. Failure makes us more knowledgeable about the situation. Just accept what you are and how you feel. Having a setback doesn't define our future at all, it's just that we should learn where we did wrong and correct those things in the next attempt. ...

How to be positive in tough times ?

Finding an optimistic viewpoint in a negative situation is an extremely difficult task. Grasping only good things and ignoring all the bad stuff is not possible. Learn to live in a positive environment is an essential factor to live a healthy life.  Think of good and the good will come to you.  Positive by Zenith Designs is licensed under CC BY-ND 2.0 We as a human think a lot and making scenarios is the mutual fact within our minds. We think about those things which never happened and take stress by doing so. Like thinking about the bad which actually never happened. What will happen in the future is not happened yet,  so thinking about that and stressing our mind is surely going to affect negatively in our lives and it will create a negative environment as well which will cause an impact on others around us as well. Isn't it? Staying positive all time is not possible at all but it obviously makes us more equipped to stand against the difficult situation. If we think n...

Pain and Sufferings

Mental health issues are common nowadays. Many of us are suffering from depression and anxiety attacks. The stress caused by sudden trauma or some changes in life leads to extreme issues related to mental illness. Image by Aaron Blanco Tejedor on Unsplash This is the foremost issue that needs our concern. Not only mental health but also physical health is included in today's world sufferings. Many people are not getting the rights they deserve. They are not having the right to vote, their superior authorities gave them a tag of backward and 2nd class citizens. Their rights are demolished by their governments only. They are not getting pay as others, this causes discomfort and gives them emotional stress.  In some societies, poor people are suffering a great loss of their loved ones because of the wars in those areas. Many children have been killed and some are facing the loss of their families, many of them are suffering from poverty and malnutrition which is causing physical harm...

Communication necessity

Interchanging of information is the fundamental need of every human being. As Paul J. Meyer said, “ Communication – the human connection – is the key to personal and career success .”                                      Photo by  Dylan Gillis on Unsplash Good communication skills are needed when you are presenting yourself or any concern. Not everyone has this quality. Building up a point of view and sharing it in a proper way is the foremost task of any person or organization. Separate ways are used for communication. The languages may be different, the medium might differ but we all interchange views. Having a say or having a point of view in day-to-day life is like showing your presence in this world. There are numerous ways of transferring information like people who do not want to speak one on one then they can share their point of view through the internet like image-based communi...

Importance of learning

Anything and everything we do is the outcome of learning . It's a crucial and utmost important part of human life.                           ( Classic Learning by Alan Levine is licensed under CC 1.0 ) Let's say if we want to buy a new phone we must attain some knowledge regarding the features of that mobile phone. In other words, we must learn something about the functioning of the phone. Right? Anybody can know but some people have the potential of learning. That's their dominion!  We are living in a modernized society in which we are learning daily something new. It's just that we have to put in the knowledge we gained in any task we want to perform. Without knowledge, we can't perform the task accurately. Learning also leads to change and also increases the chances of future performance. Learning is both improving the skill or developing a new one.  Learning is the potential aspect of a literate pers...

Respect

What is meant by respect in society? Respect is the mutual responsibility of each human.                            ( Respect   by  Martin Abegglen  is licensed under CC BY-SA 2.0 ) What you give is what you take in whichever way. Respect brings safety and trust between fellow beings. Since childhood, in Indian society specifically, our parents and elders teach us how to be respectful toward others. Showing honor or show esteem is the most important thing to live in a society. If you give respect you feel the safety as well and ultimately you say what you wanna say like,  it builds up a comfortable environment. Respect is when you keep listening when the other person is talking when you do not judge others by what they wear or do etc. A society without respect surely not going to survive and not able to impact stronger and ultimately leads to failure. Not only showing respect to others but als...

Modern society

Modernity is basically living in the current time,following the scientific,climatic and sociological claims, etc. The spread of literacy and technological growth are the main changes made in modern society.                                                      Photo by  Ryoji Iwata on  Unsplash Many of us take modern society as doing anything if it's negative or positive, we must learn what is good or bad for us then follow the same. Forgetting the  morals, ethics, and culture of the society doesn't mean you become modern or you are going to be successful in the upcoming life. That's the sign of illiteracy. Do you agree? Modern society is the most influential society ever because it has the Internet and enormous technologies. Living in today's world is a great privilege too as messaging or contacting anywhere in the world is just a c...

Freedom

Freedom is our birthright but many of us become enslaved by the life of mediocrity. Although, many of us know Freedom as only living freely but it's not just like that, it has a greater meaning in itself.                                           image credit: David Simmonds on FreeImages In my point of view, freedom is being you, to be in your truest form, and to be in your own pace. Influencing your mind through everything you see is not the case with being yourself. Of course, when we can not have a say we don't have any Freedom! Many of us believe that it is the synonym of Independence for example to talk freely and act as we like. What do you say? In order to put yourself in a position of a responsible being, you must choose to speak where you are not able to find any liberty in any matter. To do almost anything without worrying about the safety of yourself and those you love....

A Change

As the clock rotates, time changes. As Heraclitus said,  Nothing is permanent except change. The World where human beings exist is a place that changes every second. Like today we see in the Covid time the people are losing their loved ones. The scenario which we see nowadays is a live example of vulnerability and uncertainty of life. One of the things that has captured my attention during this time of COVID is how our society is reacting to the rapid pace of change. Being in an environment today I totally believe that we should prepare our mind regarding the mishaps. As this is affecting the mind of people and this is a happened change ( a change caused by external factors).  The U.S.A study reveals the possibility of every third person having a mental disorder in this tough time that we all are facing. What interests me, and what I hope interests you, is our collective power to influence change. Right ? If you think that  change is hard, then you’re right. H...